Mom, Mary Lou, and I wanted to pass on this information to all of you, our friends and family.
Dad, Tom, had a bad fall at their apartment in Cottage Grove in the early morning of December 27, 2009. Dad had been stumbling and falling more and more each day, but this one was the worst. Mom and I took him to the emergency room at the VA hospital in Madison. (Steve helped, but did not go with us because he had such a bad cold and cough, we knew they wouldn't want him there!) Dad was banged up pretty bad and cut his lip and hand, but thankfully nothing was broken. They did a CT scan he did not had a concussion and his head wasn't hurt at all.
Dad's Alzheimer’s has advanced so fast in the past 6 months that Mom had made the decision in early December to place Dad into a memory care facility sometime after the first of the year. This fall made things move a lot faster than we had planned.
Dad stayed in the VA hospital for 3 nights and yesterday, December 30, 2009, we moved Dad into the St Mary's Memory Care Center on the far west side of Madison. Mom fell in love with the place when we took the tour. If you wish to know more about the facilty, here is the website.
http://www.stmaryscarecenter.net/internet/home/stmaryscarecenter.nsf
Mom, Mary Lou, is doing well and feels at peace with the decision that she has made. As many people that have helped us over the last few crazy days have said, now Mom can stop being a caretaker and return to being a wife.
I will document Dad's journey in this new web photo album that I created today.
http://family.webshots.com/album/576127370KkvTju?vhost=family
I will take more photos when Steve and I go on Saturday to visit Dad and take him his recliner. We will be hanging up some of his favorite photos and putting out a few more things to make his room feel like home. We plan on getting a bulletin board to post photos and any cards he receives.
Dad's new address is;
Tom Querin
St. Mary’s Care Center
3401 Maple Grove Drive
Memory Care, University Road Neighborhood
Madison, WI 53719
Please feel free to pass on this message.
If there are any new major developments, Mom and I will keep you posted.
Martha